Rebelling
Let's stop playing it cool.
Work With me
From the outside things might look fine:
you're making it work,
showing up,
doing what needs to be done.
But inside you're
constantly questioning yourself,
uncomfortable,
exhausted,
and feeling like you're the only one
who feels this way.
I know those feelings. I spent most of my life learning how to leave myself in order to function.
I didn’t know how to be myself and keep life going at the same time. Using alcohol as a coping mechanism, people pleasing, not being a burden, over-functioning, pretending I knew what I was doing...it's just the way life is.
But unable to ignore the part of me that kept insisting: This is not just how life is.
Since you’re reading this, you've probably had that conversation with yourself over and over again too.
Trying to make sense of why things feel harder than they should.
Trying to explain yourself to yourself.
Trying to keep going anyway, even when something in you feels like it’s splitting off in the process.
Most people don't come to coaching because they lack information.
They come because they’ve run out of room.
Room to feel what they feel without immediately turning it into something to fix.
Room to notice what’s actually happening before they override it.
Room to be with themselves without having to perform being okay.
In sessions, I’m paying attention to what changes when someone doesn’t have to perform.
When they don’t have to explain everything cleanly.
When they don’t have to get it right in order to be heard.
When they can pause long enough to actually hear themselves think.
Something often shifts there, but it’s not always dramatic. Sometimes it’s just that someone stops abandoning themselves mid-sentence. Sometimes it’s that they notice something earlier than they used to, or they don’t immediately push past what they’re feeling.
I don’t really think of this as "fixing" anything. It’s more like:
Staying close to what’s already there long enough for it to become clearer, and for someone to stop being so far away from their own experience while they’re living it.
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What I've learned in my 10 years as a coach is that meaningful change rarely comes from someone else telling us who to be.
Instead, it emerges when we're given enough support, curiosity, and attention to discover what's true for ourselves, and when we orient ourselves within our lives and the systems around us by openly exploring the contexts, relationships, and parts of us.
Those things happen intellectually and somatically. That’s how I show up as a coach.
I offer a reliable container where you can bring the questions, challenges, tensions, and possibilities that are alive for you. Together, we'll explore what you're noticing, what you're longing for, what's getting in the way, and what becomes possible when you stop trying so hard to force yourself into someone else's version of a meaningful life.
I work with people exploring neurodivergence, coping mechanisms, norms, and leadership.
-people who wonder if they're neurodivergent or know they are and wonder what's next
-people who want to take a closer look at the ways they manage their lives and see what needs to change
-people in leadership positions who want to create new ways of leading that make sense for the world that's already here, and the one that's emerging
Our work happens in three month containers. There are sessions, and there is support for everything that happens in between sessions, because most of this doesn’t happen on a schedule. It happens in real time, in your actual life, on a random Tuesday morning when you notice something and don’t immediately override it.
There are two ways for us to work together:
Nine (9) sessions & support over three (3) months: $1,800 or
Six (6) sessions & support over three (3) months: $1,200.
Payment plans and sliding scale rates are available.
If you're curious about working with me, I'd love to meet you. We'll explore what's bringing you here and whether this feels like a good fit.